This is super shameless plug but do get a copy of Baby Magazine's July issue to read the article I wrote on Dads and Breastfeeding. If that's not enough reason to spend P150 for, then buy a copy for the Educhild article on self-esteem because it is very, very enlightening!
Basically, it says that a high self-esteem does not always translate into achievements. I guess esteem is either of two things, knowing what is and knowing what can be done. Knowing one is smart and loved does not always mean one will make good, responsible decisions. But knowing one can make choices and changes to improve things for oneself can result in brilliance and happiness.
Go, go, go... buy na!