... the less you insist on the wifely things.
Like before, I was bent on a 10th wedding anniversary renewal ceremony, complete with wedding invitations, church ceremony, wedding gown and reception. But now, I am hoping we have all the kids we want already by then and we're pretty stable and that we could go to Rome instead. Or Greece. Or maybe that Harry Potter fantasyland they're building in Florida.
Because now, what's important is staying and bonding together as a family. I'm just really lucky to have a loving husband... who is now entertaining our son just so I can have my way with the internet.