My sister just recently spent a week in Florida. She texted me about wishing she can go to Disneyland with me someday. She told me about going to different fun parks every day and swimming in Florida waters wearing a tank top and shorts because she didn't dare do as the locals did, and that is wear next to nothing on the beach.
Of course I was a wee bit envious. But such is one of the perks she will enjoy forevermore as being the only one who got to fly to the U.S. when our parents' petition was approved. In two or three years time, my brother may be able to vacation with her. And me? Who knows if i'd ever even go to the U.S.
True, there is some sadness but it's just a feeling. It doesn't really matter in the great scheme of things.
But I do hope that when my Yakee gets to first visit any Disneyland, it would be with us, his parents, and his other siblings. Some places, you really need to have family with you to enjoy. And am sure, Florida vacations someday for us would include the Harry Potter Theme Park :)